Golf is more than just a sport—it's a tradition with its own unwritten rules and customs. Understanding proper golf etiquette is essential whether you're playing your first round or your five hundredth. These rules aren't just formalities; they're designed to keep the game enjoyable, safe, and efficient for everyone on the course.

Why Golf Etiquette Matters

Good etiquette shows respect for the game, the course, and your fellow players. It also helps maintain a smooth pace of play, which is crucial when multiple groups are on the course. Remember that golf is self-regulated—players are expected to call penalties on themselves and follow the rules without officials watching their every move.

Before You Arrive

Dress Code

Most golf courses have a dress code. While requirements vary, here are some general guidelines:

• Men: Collared shirts, golf slacks or neat shorts (no jeans, athletic shorts, or t-shirts)
• Women: Collared shirts or appropriate golf tops, golf slacks, shorts, or skirts (no jeans, excessively short shorts, or workout attire)
• Shoes: Golf shoes (with soft spikes) or athletic shoes (no street shoes, sandals, or heels)

If you're unsure about the dress code, call the pro shop ahead of time to ask.

Reservations

Always make a tee time reservation when possible. Arrive at least 20-30 minutes before your scheduled tee time to check in, warm up, and be ready to play on time.

On the Course

Pace of Play

Slow play is one of the biggest complaints in golf. Here's how to keep things moving:

• Be ready when it's your turn to hit
• Limit practice swings to one or two
• Play "ready golf" when appropriate (hit when you're ready, not strictly by honors)
• Keep up with the group ahead of you
• If you're falling behind, let faster groups play through
• Look for your ball and others' balls promptly after shots
• Consider picking up if you're having a particularly difficult hole and slowing down play

Be Mindful of Others

Golf requires concentration. Be considerate of other players:

• Stand still and remain quiet when others are hitting
• Don't stand directly behind someone who's putting or hitting
• Avoid casting shadows across someone's putting line
• Turn cell phone ringers off or to vibrate
• Keep celebrations or frustrations moderate and brief

Care for the Course

Everyone shares responsibility for maintaining the course:

• Replace divots or fill them with the provided sand/seed mix
• Repair ball marks on greens (yours and any others you see)
• Smooth sand traps with rakes after playing from them
• Follow cart rules and stay on paths when required
• Never throw clubs or damage the course in frustration

Pro Tip: Fixing Ball Marks

To properly repair a ball mark on the green, insert a repair tool at the edges of the depression and gently push toward the center, rather than lifting up (which can damage grass roots). Then smooth the area with your putter.

Golf Cart Etiquette

When using a golf cart:

• Follow all posted cart rules and signs
• Keep carts on paths around tees and greens
• Stay on paths on par 3 holes when possible
• Observe the 90-degree rule when in effect
• Never drive carts through wet areas or hazards
• Park carts on the side or back of greens, never in front where you'll be in other players' line of sight

Communication and Courtesy

Safety First

Golf balls and clubs can cause serious injury:

• Never swing a club when others are close by
• Yell "FORE!" loudly if your ball is heading toward other players
• Don't hit until the group ahead is out of range
• Be aware of maintenance workers on the course

Handling Difficult Situations

Even with the best etiquette, challenging situations may arise:

• If a group behind you is playing faster: Invite them to play through at an appropriate time (such as while waiting on a tee)
• If someone in your group is breaking etiquette: Address issues politely and privately
• If you hit into another group: Immediately yell "FORE!", then apologize when you reach them

Final Thoughts

Golf etiquette may seem overwhelming at first, but it soon becomes second nature. Remember that everyone was a beginner once, and most golfers are happy to help newcomers learn the traditions of the game.

The most important rules can be summarized simply: be considerate, play promptly, and care for the course. Follow these principles, and you'll be welcome in any foursome.

At Buddies on the Green, we believe golf should be accessible and enjoyable for players of all skill levels. Understanding proper etiquette is a big part of that enjoyment, as it creates a respectful environment where everyone can appreciate this wonderful game.